Script for Skillfully Confronting Microaggressions

A few tips to keep in mind:

  • Reinforcing someone who made a microaggression DOES NOT mean liking or approving of it.

    We reinforce others to increase positive behavior change.

    Humans are social animals - like gorillas - give someone a banana if you want to see the trick again!

  • Acting non-attacking & curious is effective NOT passive.

    When we act approach someone with curiosity, they are more open to listening & shifting their perspectives.

  • Be mindful of your goal(s) in confronting a microaggression. Are you wanting to retaliate or foster inclusivity?

    Bearing in mind these two questions will help you anchor your actions to goals.

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